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May 1, 2010

still reading

I am reading Miles Davis' never-ending autobiography.

It is taking a long, long time.

To quote him, "it's a motherfucker." That's his favorite word. If it wasn't in the book, I may have finished reading it by now because it would be much much shorter.

It's a cool book, though and makes me want to listen to much more of his music, more than just Kind of Blue. He had a pretty crazy life. Sounds like he had some very funky music come out in the 70's on Columbia records but it didn't sell well at the time. I'm definitely going to investigate more of his music.

If I ever finish reading it, that will be my reward to myself.

you should see the other guy

Have a two year old girl with a black eye.

Talk about heart breaking.

Playground accident. Thank goodness, though, it could have been much, much worse.

I just wish it could make me breakfast

My cell phone alarm clock tells me how much time I have until it goes off.

Just set it for tomorrow and this popped up: You have 8 hours and 8 minutes until your alarm goes off.

Not sure how I feel about that.

May 2, 2010

potty training part 17,465

We put Yaya (she of the big old shiner) to bed and she was crying and crying tonight. John went in to settle her down.She was in there with no diaper on and she yelled PEE when she saw him, so he put her on the potty and she peed! So now she is starting to tell us when she has to go. Yippee Yi Yo.

May 3, 2010

reading

TJ gets to say this tomorrow at prayer.

"For our teacher, who teaches us about God's love, we pray to the Lord."

We have to practice it with him tonight.

I find it to be so cute.

May 4, 2010

Black Eyed Squee

Poor Julia, every time someone sees her with her black eye, they make a huge deal of it.

I'm teaching her to say "I'm tough!" whenever someone mentions it.

That way, they won't mess with her.

May 5, 2010

she likes them older

Julia gave her little friend a hug today. He's three.

His response: That was the highlight of my day.

May 6, 2010

write write write

Just signed up for writersmarket.com for freelancing.

Haven't freelanced in a while, so I'm pretty excited.

Now to decide where to send my first query.

WOOoooooooWooooooo!!!

TJ was having a little bit of a rough time at school the past few weeks.

We pleaded, we joked, we cried, we yelled, we coerced, finally we bribed. If he got five smiley faces in a row, he would get a new toy.

It worked! Or a combination of everything did. Something finally clicked.

One super cool Cars racetrack later, he's still getting good reports from his teacher.

Thank goodness.

Yeah Baby

Last Monday we started potty training Julia.

As of right now, I can say with confidence that she is potty trained. I have a black eyed 2-year-and-2-month-old who is potty trained. Yeah!

She still wears diapers when she sleeps and takes naps, which will be the norm for a while.

Psyched!!!

wheat beer

I've been a beer snob since way before it was cool.

So I find it amusing that now Budweiser is coming out with a wheat beer. They are smart, realizing that people want a little something extra. When I went to the liquor store, the guy was impressed with all my purchases, except for the Bud Lite Golden Wheat. "You'll be back for the regular stuff," he told me. "The Blue Moon or whatever you usually drink."*

I also bought this crazy looking wine - pinot grigio in a straight bottle, picked solely because the bottle looks cool. I also pick books by the cover. Yup.

I'm drinking the BL Golden Wheat right now. It's good.

But I have a feeling it's going to be a false alarm.

Once I thought I liked the Bud Lite Chill - I think that's what it was called - but it turned out to be a misunderstanding.

*Hoegaarden

google goggles

John has an app on his phone called google goggles.

He takes a picture of anything and it comes up with what it is.

Barcodes, different languages, etc.

He took a picture of Amadeus and it said "view similar images" - the similar images were a seal, a bunch of potatoes, wheat, and a yellow rattlesnake among other crazy things.

May 8, 2010

She's missing out

Today we went to our friend's house for a little get together, a lot of fun. Dinner was so good, grilled chicken, steak, zucchini, potato salad and rice. All so delicious. We sit down to eat, Julia pushes her plate away and says "I want cheese." And that's what she ate for dinner.

May 9, 2010

that does not sound like a nutrious breakfast to me

Drove by a restaurant tonight with their advertisement on their marquee stating the following: Now serving breakfast. Bar open at 7 a.m.

Wow.

Mama's Day

TJ is good at keeping a secret!

He made me a present in school and would not even give me a hint to what it was.

Mama: Is it a basketball?

TJ: Nope.

Mama: Oh, I know, it's pajamas.

TJ: No. It's not.

Mama: Food?

TJ: No!

Mama: Perfume?

TJ: NO! Quit asking me, I'm not going to tell you.

Mama: Just give me a hint.

TJ: No hints.

Mama: C'mon, just one hint.

TJ: No, you'll get it on Happy Mother's Day.

Today, I finally got the long awaited present. It is a baby food jar filled with bath salts, with a pink ribbon on the top with TJ's school picture stuck on it.

Aw.

Why, it says May of course

Today we were at the Alehouse and TJ and Julia are coloring their little restaurant coloring sheets.

I ask TJ, what do you think that says, pointing to the word (May) on his sheet, with flowers and other springlike things.

May, he tells me.

TJ, can you read? I ask him.

He shrugs, and goes back to coloring.

May 10, 2010

Has she even been there?

Julia is not sleeping in her crib, yelling "I want to go to Chuck E Cheese."

May 11, 2010

the best day of her life

Julia loved her afternoon for many, many reasons...

One was being pushed in the swing by TJ, as she ate a powdered donut. She was loving it.

At least three of her favorite things were involved in that.

May 12, 2010

Dora's a stripper now? What is this world coming to?

Sometimes I see words or hear things differently than they really are.

My non-sleeping baby is watching a Dora dvd while I am doing laundry and I'm listening out of the corner of my ear.

I hear this:

Dora lapdance and play.

I think to myself, "Wow. That's a little inappropriate" until I figure out they said "Dora: Laugh, Dance and Play."

Mommy is a Mama

TJ and I have a song that we used to sing when he was younger so he could learn the relationships with his family.

Mama: Mommy is a...

TJ: Mama

Mama: Daddy is a...

TJ: Father

Mama: Julia is a...

TJ: Sister

Mama: TJ is a...

TJ: Brother.

Etc. etc. It's cute and fun and taught him family relationships.

Tonight I was singing it so Julia could hear TJ and I singing it.

Mama: TJ and Julia are Mama's...

TJ: Lovepies.

May 13, 2010

2-year-olds should sleep. Period.

Should I really think it's a miracle when my 2-year-old takes a nap?

go away

When I tell Julia to sing the rain rain song, she sings this:

Rain, rain, rain, rain, rain, rain, rain, rain, rain, rain, rain, rain, rain, rain.


She doesn't sing the go away part.

Today, she kisses John's booboo on his hand and sings: Booboo, go away.

rocking the fashion

TJ takes forever to get dressed in the morning, but he wants to do it himself, no help from us anymore. We usually put some clothes on his bed and hope for the best. When he does dress himself, it takes even longer than forever, but of course, we need to let him do it so he gets used to it, and learns, and eventually does it. It takes forever because he gets so distracted so easily.

Today I gave him five minutes to get dressed. I went in to check on him and he was actually doing it, dressing himself, picking out his own outfit and everything.

Of course, it was almost the end of the world because I opened the door. "I WAAAANNNNT TO SURRRRPRRRRISSSSEEEEEE YOUUUUUUUUUUUU!!! CLOSE THE DOOR!"

When he was done, he walks out wearing a pair of gray shorts, black socks, black leather dress shoes, a short sleeved navy blue polo shirt and a cream colored sweater vest.

He looked like the cutest Christopher Robin you ever did see.

I finished off the look with his black leather coat.

Popeye the sailor man

Mama: Julia, close your eyes and go to sleep.

Julia squints her eyes shut, but leaves one kind of open so she can see what's going on.

I'm focusing over here, Mama

I cannot take my messy car anymore.

It stresses me out, having diaper bags and sports bags and gym bags and swimming bags and juice bags and snacks and french fries and toys and books and extra clothes, just in case, EVERYWHERE.

So I told TJ to help me clean it out when we were coming home from swimming lessons.

He put all the toys and the books in the toy and book holder, gave me the trash, held onto his coat, and when I said OK, let's go inside, his response was "I am cleaning out the car, I need to focus, remember?"

story without a book

Still telling the stories without a book to TJ at night, at his request. It's fun.

The one last night was a hit. I know this for sure because TJ asked me to tell it again this morning as we were eating breakfast.

It was about an owl named Freddy who wouldn't say whooo whooo, instead he said "WHAT?"

The owls had a meeting and talked about what to do to get Freddy to say whooo whooo instead of WHAT? - that's not what owls say.

It turns out Freddy couldn't pronounce whooo whooo so he got a tutor, an elder owl, to help him.

He practiced and practiced and practiced with his tutor, every day.

When they had the next meeting, all the owls from the Owl Village waited expectantly to see what Freddy will say.

Will he say WHAT? or will he now say whooo whooo?

When he says whooo whooo so clearly, all the owls cheer wildly.

no more fur

TJ and I are going to the pet store to get a cone for Georgia's head to prevent her from biting her sore on her belly any more.

TJ: Can I get another pet?

Mama: No.

TJ: Please?

Mama: No.

TJ: Why?

Mama: We have two dogs and three cats. And two fish! We have more pets than anyone else. We are NOT getting any more pets, especially anything furry.

Later on in the store...

TJ: Do pigeons have fur?

Mama: No, they have feathers.

TJ: I want a pigeon for a pet.

I'll take that

Mama: Julia, put on this skirt.

Julia puts it on. Multi-colored, flowered, super cute.

Julia: I am a princess.

Mama: You are a princess?

Julia: Yes and you are the king.

May 14, 2010

oh the irony

Is it ironic that I'm skipping the gym to go buy workout clothes?

Eat? Naw.

Julia eats anything as long as it is:

chicken nuggets
corn
pizza (sometimes)
cereal (sometimes)
hummus
or a waffle.

the world needs better arms too

I do ab exercises at home now. I like the ones on hulu.com or I just throw a dvd into my laptop. They are easy, usually about 10 minutes long or so. I have a lot to choose from. So why oh why isn't there any equivalent arm exercise videos on hulu or sparkpeople or anywhere on the web?

I just don't get it. On the ab videos, they walk you through the entire 10 minute workout and have you follow along.

Any of the arm videos I have found online show you the exercises and then say "do them. 10 reps." That's not what I want, I want to do them along with the trainer using my little weights at home. For 10 minutes.

Is that really asking so much?

May 16, 2010

Maybe not so nutritious but fun!

John's suggestion after Mommy and Daddy swimming lessons at the gym and I loved it: Pupu platter.
The kids thought it was a good idea.
What else to drink but a scorpion bowl?
Fun and so retro.

wedding weekend

Went to a really fun wedding at the same place John and I got married.
It brought back some nice memories.
And the sunset over the Newport Bridge?
Almost as beautiful as the bride and groom.

Facebook Hello and Goodbye

Inspired by one of my friends, I decided to sign off of Facebook for a little while. I made no big announcement, no shouting out "Facebook and I are breaking up!"
The outcry from my friends who I told via email or in person was incredible and a little funny.

They couldn't believe it! "Peculiar," one said.

"You are strong," said another.

"It's not forever, I'm sure," I told them, "I can re-activate it anytime."

Less time than I thought, actually, because I already signed back on so I could see pictures from the wedding last night.

Not sure how long I will stay on it though. It really is a time suck and in the few days I was off of it, my desk became cleaner than it has in a long, long time.

If I deactivate again, maybe I will even find the time to send out some query letters for freelance magazine articles.


Do other 4-year-olds say things like this?

Every now and then TJ says: YEAH BABY! when he's psyched about something.

Really? My 4-year-old says Yeah Baby?

May 17, 2010

investigative e shopping

The new big boom in shopping is "invite only" sales where you have to give your email address to gain entry to the virtual boutique.

I have seen (and joined) a bunch of them, http://www.ruelala.com is one, they send you emails with the upcoming sales - once you enter, you have a certain amount of time to purchase the designer items at the special price.

The newest one is http://www.totsy.com, which has children's designer stuff, clothes, accessories, luggage and more.

The upcoming sale was for timi and leslie bags. Now, I am out of the stage of needing diaper bags, really, it would be a little ridiculous to buy one at this point, but I'm a sucker for a cute bag, so I had to check it out.

The bags were cute and it looked like the prices were slashed. Regular $180, yours for only $70!

I decided to do a search for the Jane bag that is advertised on the flash sale on http://www.totsy.com for $120 with no returns - final sale. I found the same exact bag - the large Jane in blue for $103.99 with free shipping on ebags and I bet you can return it.

May 18, 2010

she misses them

Every now and then Julia will say "Where's TJ?"

And I say "At school."

And she says "I want to call him."

And I say "You can't because he doesn't have a phone."

And she says "He doesn't have a phone?"

And I say "No."

Then she says "Where's Daddy?"

And I say "At work."

And she says "At work?"

And I say "Yes."

Then she says "Where's TJ?"

wash it

My little girl doesn't like things to be dirty. If there is something on a piece of her food, like if her strawberry touches her bread with butter and a piece of the butter ends up on the strawberry, she will tell me to wash it.

She is eating yogurt right now.

She spills some on her shirt, wipes it with a napkin, hands me the napkin and tells me to wash it.

why doesn't anyone tell me these things?

I overheard a girl at the wedding tell another girl that shoes with platforms in the front are much more comfortable.

This is a good thing to know.

As is the fact that eyeshadow brushes are a necessity for good application of eyeshadow. No one ever told me.

And I bet people I know knew, too.

What other little secrets are out there that are evading me?

I need to know!

May 19, 2010

Yes. It is. Now go to sleep.

One of the very cute things that Julia does right now is when it is overcast, or raining or dark, she says in her cute little voice "is it night time?"

May 20, 2010

Rhode Island is my Island

My sister, talking to TJ on the phone: It's a nice day here in Florida, what's the weather like where you are TJ?

TJ: It's a beautiful day on Our Island.

Pantry Meals

When left to my own devices, I occasionally prepare what I refer to as a Pantry Meal. I don't really say it out loud because it doesn't sound that appealing, really.

Basically, what it is is all the leftovers from dinners I cooked during the week end up as a mishmash in a pan, heated up, with extra flavorings (sauces or spices or both, depending on my mood). Usually some noodles are involved and more likely than not, cheese is melted over it.

Tonight I decided to make Pantry Soup with the leftover veggies in our fridge and ended up throwing some kielbasa in there. I'm pretty sure it's gonna be YUMMY.

Too bad I can never recreate any of the really good ones.

May 21, 2010

get well soon Daddy

John has a sprained back, poor thing.

Today at breakfast:

Julia: Daddy, you happy?

Daddy: Yes, I'm happy.

Julia: You have a boo boo?

Daddy: I do, but it's getting better.

Julia: It's all better?

Daddy: Getting there.

Julia wants everyone to be happy. She doesn't like boo boos or crying. Or my singing, for that matter.

they owe ME money

I saved more than I spent at Garden City. Ha! Totally possible. I know some people understand me on that.

Garden City is a good place! Especially on such a beautiful day. I need to go there more.

The only thing I don't like about it is the sign advertising the properties available for lease has a Boston area code. Does this mean it's not owned by a Rhode Islander?

I'm feeling some googling coming on.

drink me, c'mon, drink me

I almost couldn't resist the lure of the Keurig coffee maker that I got for Mother's Day.

It's 1:01 pm and my time is 12:59 pm. That's the latest I can have caffeine. If I go past 12:59, it's trouble. This has been scientifically proven.

Luckily, I realized we have some of the decaf ones from the sample pack.

Phew.

With a rebel yell, she cried more, more, more. Yogurt, that is.

Julia's breakfast: drinking yogurt* in a bowl.

Julia's lunch: drinking yogurt in a bowl.

Julia's dinner: drinking yogurt in a bowl.


*drinking yogurt is yogurt in a tube, Gogurt, etc.

May 22, 2010

Ikea, help a mea.

John had to work from home today so I had to get the kids out of the house completely because it's too hard for him to concentrate. We distract him somehow or something. Hm. Can't imagine!

Ikea sounded like a fabulous idea for some reason so I load the two kids into the car around noon. I should have known better, Julia is rubbing her eyes already and yawning at this point.

From the get-go, she won't stay in the cart, once we finally get there after the windy ride through Sharon. There has to be a different way to get there, my Liar GPS takes me the crazy way through residential streets.

"I want to walk!" Julia tells me, crabbily, after having a fit when I put a spatula in the cart next to her. "NO! I don't wike it." She likes to be alone in the carriage, apparently. Or actually, I take that back. She doesn't want to be in that carriage, not at all. "I want to walk," she says and she means it.

Maneuvering the crowds at Ikea is a feat in itself, let alone while pushing a cart and controlling a 4-year-old and the 2-year-old, who has decided she wants to not only walk, but walk backwards through the store.

Figure it is a good time to check out the restaurant.

Which is right by the kid area. Where there is a slide, two rockers, and a kid sized egg-shaped chair that you can pull down a cover like a shade and hide inside. Oh and it spins too. And thousands of stuffed animals. Stuffed animals galore.

So it took a long time to get out of there, since they don't let you take the carriages upstairs. What?! It's definitely a conspiracy.

We manage to get the tray of our food to the table. Some guy gave us a wheeled tray cart that you can stack multiple trays of food on so you are not balancing too many. Genius. He hooked us up, I had no idea what those strange looking contraptions were.

We share macaroni and cheese, mashed potatoes, mixed veggies, chocolate cake, chocolate and water. It cost about $8. TJ is excited that we are high up in the air and there are flowers on the rooftop.

We finish, Julia discovers a tv with cartoons. Won't leave. Ay yi yi. Have to grab her, screaming and we go back into the store.

Julia is not happy until she finds the couch section. She tries out every couch, every chair, every fold out bed, until I scoop her up again and carry her screaming to the elevator downstairs, where surprise, surprise, she won't get back into the carriage.

TJ will, he's more than happy to, actually.

At this point, I'm aiming for the exit. Julia is pissed. Crying, screaming, yelling. Folding herself up into a ball when I try to put her in the carriage. Some lady tries to help to no avail.

I let her walk, she's staggering around, mad as hell, weaving in and out of the people until she sees a bed on display. "I'm tired!" she announces and gets into the bed, commandeers the huge stuffed dog and won't get out.

Finally, we somehow coerce her out of the bed, and she is walking so slowly, carrying the dog.

TJ tells her "A giant is behind you, chasing you!" and that puts some fire under her bum bum. "An alligator is coming! Hurry!" We convince her the safest place to be is in the carriage.

"I'm hungry," she tells me and luckily we are getting to the end, near the checkout. I spot some cookies, grab them, pay and we are done. Phew. Bag the stuff, get a cinnamon roll and a pear soda and we are out.

We get on the "moverator" - I think that's what it's called, like a people conveyor belt, but it's sloped and the shopping cart wheels lock into it so they don't move.

Julia turns around and says to a guy with black hair, who actually does look like John, "Hi Dada!" happy as can be.

TJ says "a bird just flew into the Exit sign," so I ask him what sign is that and he says "that one, right there - E-X-I-T." The kid reads now. It kills me. It makes me cry every time.

Julia falls asleep within five minutes of getting into the car.

Seemed like a much better idea when I first came up with it than once it was done.

Whoooof.


May 23, 2010

he's a sprinter

TJ decided to RUN the 5k walk that we did this morning.

Which means that Mama didn't get to walk with my friend, with the kids in the stroller, as planned, but rather had to do full out sprinting intervals to catch up with him almost the entire way.

Sorry Elmo

I am fixing the "broken" Elmo pillow, and I have to stick a sewing needle through his eye to make his nose sit properly on the pillow.

It doesn't seem like something that should be done to Elmo.

May 24, 2010

She knows what's important

Every now and then, Julia just says "are you happy?"

I find it quite endearing.

May 25, 2010

breakfast of champs

Mama: TJ, what do you want for breakfast?

TJ: Sushi.

May 26, 2010

was it something you ate?

TJ tells me this morning: I have a food ache.

Yaya Love

Yaya comes up and gives a hug and says "I love you."

How sweet she is.

Hello? Hello?

I accidentally sent a text yesterday - I thought I was sending it to the woman who cleaned my house (It's a guilty necessity twice a month. I love it.)

I wrote "You are amazing."

And she is, the house looked so good!

It was a number that I didn't recognize and I know she had called me earlier so I sent the text to that number. Later I was scrolling through my phone and I noticed that the number I sent the text to was not her number at all.

Hm. So I am wondering who I sent that text to, hopefully I made someone's day.

I knew the number looked sort of familiar, but I couldn't figure it out but now it was starting to drive me a little bit crazy, so I called it as I'm waiting to pick up TJ from school.

"Hello?" a woman's voice says.

"Hi, It's Anne, returning a call from yesterday."

"She just went to pick up TJ." she says.

Pause.

"Mimi?"

Yeah. So it was my home number that I never, ever use and don't even have any idea what the number is.

Ha!


Moms can make many things happen

At the zoo the other day, I tell TJ at least twelve times: TJ, throw that cup away before we get to the car.

TJ: No, I want to drink it!

We get to the car. He hands me the cup.

So I throw the lemonade out onto the ground and put the cup in my car.

TJ: MaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaMMMMMaaaa!

Mama: What?

TJ: You just drink littered!

Drink litter. Defined as when someone throws drink on the ground. Classic.

But that's not the end of the story.

Today on the radio, the dj says it's going to thunderstorm tonight.

TJ: Mama, it's YOUR fault.

Mama: Why is it my fault?

TJ: Remember when you threw that lemonade on the ground?

Mama: Yes. Oh, is it going to rain to wash it away and that's why it's my fault?

TJ: No. It evaporated into the clouds and will come down as rain. That's why it's your fault.

May 31, 2010

He's very mature for 4.

I overheard TJ's little friend Ava telling TJ "TJ, you act like you are 5 years old. You really do."

TJ was absolutely beaming.

say this, not that

TJ, drops something: Oh crap.

Mama: Um, TJ, maybe we can come up with something better than that.

TJ: Like what?

Mama: Oh my gosh?

TJ: I could say Oh my God.

Mama: Well...maybe that's not the best thing to say.

TJ: Hm.

Mama: How about For the love of Pete?

TJ: Who is Pete?

Mama: Ummm. We could say Darn.

TJ: No.


About an hour goes by.

TJ: Mama! I know, we can say ooopsie daisy.

Mama: I think that works.

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